Last Night Was AMAZING!!!

We finally did it!

We finally went to our first Tantric Sex event, it was by far the best non-touch sexual experience I’ve ever had!

Do you remember just a little while ago I met a beautiful woman, blogger and author by the name of Kenya K. Stevens – aka JuJuMaMa? Wonderful! Well last night she, Rakhem Seku (her husband) and a few others hosted Organic Bliss Tantra at Your Day Spa located in Roswell, Georgia. Hubby and I enjoyed ourselves so much that we are convinced we will be hosting our very own Tantric Sex event in the very near future.

 

From the moment we got there we were so high off of our own excitement and each other you could just feel the energy and love ooozzzing out of us. We immediately spotted Kenya and greeted her with hugs, kisses and smiles, just like I pictured it. Next, we got the pleasure of meeting her wonderful and wise husband who was much taller than I expected but I was pleasantly surprised. We were to be her assistants for the evening so we rolled our sleeves up and dove right in. There was food to be set up on the table, candles to be lit, sign in table to be arranged. We did not want Kenya to have to worry about a thing - other than being her illuminous bright being of a beautiful woman, who is very in tuned with her sensual and sexual nature. The ladies needed her to be relaxed and ready in order to guide us through the evening.  The guests started to arrive one by one and sometimes two maybe three at a time. D. and I greeted them with warm smiles, made them feel at ease and set them up to look forward to a fabulous evening! We had a good turn out. I would say it was about 30-35 guests in attendance. For many, it was their first time (like us) so they didn’t know what to expect but none-the-less were excited with the anticipation of it all. The doors flung open indicating it was time for the event to begin!

We all started with a Tantra Meditation session to unwind, relax and center ourselves in order to become open to receive all that was in store for us. The room was filled with blissful energy. Everyone was receptive, it was great! Now mind you, I’m already on a natural high so this just took me even higher. I love to meditate. I think everyone should give it a try . Moving right along to one of the best parts of the night – Rakhem Seku so eloquently demonstrated how he brings women to state of ORGASM without touching their bodies. The first volunteer came in to it open and ready to receive from him, which is the best way to reach your full potential of Orgasmic Bliss. Kenya had all the other ladies in the audience move to the front row to be in a better position to receive the electrical energy that Rakhem Seku was giving to the volunteer who was by now laying down tucked under a warm blanket. This completely blew my mind!! I thought the volunteer would be the only one to benefit from the healing, sensual, energy but if you were in your seat open, ready and receptive then you too would receive. Every woman is different so whatever she receives and how ever she receives it would be all up to her. Orgasmic Bliss was there for everyone! You know I was ready!

 

It took him about 10 minutes to get her to a state of Expanded Orgasm, it was tantalizing, sensual, surreal and extremely intriguing to watch. All eyes were on them. Next thing you know, I was feeling it!!!!! I’m sitting in my chair with my hands open in the receiving position and all of a sudden I start getting these tingly feelings in my body. I started to move in a wave like motion nothing as intense as hers but something all the same. I just let myself and my inhibitions go and enjoyed the moment, the feeling, and the fact that the men in the room were watching. With every inhale I let out a moan which made the feeling even more enjoyable. Why go to an event like this bottled up, with fear and skepticism? Just – be- open!! Kenya walked around the room helping the women to relax and receive by gently unfolding their arms, placing their hands in their laps in an open position and uncrossing their legs. One of the important things to remember was to remain in a state of openness and receptiveness. It’s like wanting to have a physical orgasm with your lover but you’re too busy thinking about how your body and hair look and what you’re cooking for dinner. If you’re in this place you might as well fake it until next time. But just know this, men want to give…we have to be willing to receive.

 

It was nothing like being in a room with Women who were open to the experience and Men who were absolutely loving, tender and feeling a sense of gratitude for just being there. All the men in the room were absolute Gentlemen! During the session they were quietly and respectfully observing. After all they were all there to learn. Learn how to pleasure, give, honor and bless their woman on a much higher level. Talk about men who appreciate the many aspects of woman, it’s beautiful! I commended all of them for wanting to learn how to please a women by using other tools and technique’s that’s different from what the “little” boys use. There are so many more ways to give to a women sexually. Men just have to take the time to find it, it’s out there and your woman will love you for it!

Open To Orgasm ~ This was the session where Kenya would teach all of the women how to open themselves up to Orgasm. So many women today, unfortunately, do not experience Orgasms. And, to make it worse many, many, many women fake it and in turn cut themselves short in receiving what her lover can give. And her lover loses out because he can’t give. And what's up with these ladies that say that they have their “toys”, “so why do I need a man”? I think this question is absurd! Why do you need a man? We have to understand that men want to give, they want to please. We ladies have forgotten how to receive and to be fulfilled. We don’t like to allow our men to lead and we in turn follow. There is nothing wrong with following your man. There is nothing wrong or belittling about allowing your man to lead. In fact, it takes great strength and courage for a real woman to do this. It’s actually our fear and weakness that pushes us to want to take the lead. There is strength in submission. I know what you’re thinking, there goes that “S” word again……oh yeah! 

I’ll be writing a part two to this post and in that post I will include the five steps to Orgasm according to Kenya. I will also share the conversation I had with friends in my room on my bed at the age of 23, on the day I said I Do. We talked for hours about the “S” word – Submission. I’ll say this, I lost many friends (or at least those who I thought were friends) over that conversation. I’ll also talk about why D. and I didn’t get home until after 7 am in the morning after our Tantra Bliss experience ~ and why many, many hours later I am still in that state of B-L-I-S-S!