Open To Orgasm

As quite as a whisper in the distance I feel you coming near. I can only hear it through my heart but it becomes more and more clear. As the sound begins to rumble in my being I open myself up to receiving….true, deep and Expanded Orgasm. 

~Lisa C

Sorry to keep you waiting….As promised here’s part - 2 on what we learned at the Tantric Sex event that I blogged about here. There is still more to come, part - 3 on it’s way!

During the event Kenya helped the female participants learn how to open to Orgasm. She taught us what she calls the five stages to Orgasm.

I will share with you what she taught us and after each stage I’ll expound to give you a clearer, more vivid visualization on how to progress one step at a time. (My thoughts are in italics). Understand that It takes practice and patience with yourself to begin completely letting go and receiving the ultimate experience of bliss!

Stage One: Grow ~ Begin to see your man as a mirror. Nothing he says or does is personal. Nothing that happens is against you. Enjoy the world of your relationship without confrontation, worry, sadness or want. See your reflection in him and become tolerant. Action = Open to love!

 ~ As we begin to move in and through our relationships remember to become open to all that your lover has and is. We are not perfect just perfectly ourselves, perfectly who we are. When we look upon this specimen of a Man know that he is you and you are him; mentally, emotionally, as well as physically.

 

Stage Two: Flow ~ Allow his energy to direct your flow. Begin to get under him. Allow him to take the lead in love. Men say they want an aggressive woman, what they mean is that they want a receptive woman. Action = Create a Sacred Love Sanctuary!

~ Submission is truly the essence of beauty that we women posses. Life is birthed out of submission. Growth is allowed because of submission. Healing takes place through submission. Submission sets you up to receiving. Receive from your Man. Open up for your Man. Allow your Man to love you.

  Stage Three: Show ~ Allow body breath. Allow body movement and sound. Practice this on your own. You must show your man that you are ready for his love. You are ready to receive. Action = As he moves to you, take your breath and breath out the AH. This will signal your openness!

~ Now that you’re open allow yourself to be heard. Moan, groan, say AH. Breathe deeply and allow yourself to feel. Move your body, touch your body show him that you’re ready.

Stage Four: Know ~ Know what is happening within. Be in touch with spirit. Once love is in the making, decide to know what is going on within. Do not focus on pleasing him. Focus, instead, on knowing what he is giving and knowing how you feel inside. Action = Eye gazing –visualization – speaking what you are feeling – share your visualization. This will bring purpose to the act.

~ It’s time to put aside your insecurities, inhibitions and allow yourself to be his; fully and completely. You have shown him that you are ready now open your mouth as say so. He’ll take that as a clue to do what he does best, which is give. Seeing you, smelling you, tasting you, feeling you and hearing you will set him on fire to give you everything he’s got. With everything in him he’s is going to go after pleasing you. (This my ladies is what you want!)

 

Stage Five: Bestow ~Show your man appreciation. Compliment your partner; find the good parts of his love. Bestow your respect and appreciation. In this way, Woman becomes Goddess and Man becomes a God. When you boost him up in love, even if it feels ‘fake’; someday it will be real. When you tell him how fantastic you feel and how wonderful love is with him and how you yearn for more, he will not only be made more readily available to you, but trust will be born in the relationship. Action = Bestow positive feelings about your man often. List the ways you respect him. Express WHY you respect him, share WHY you enjoy his love.

~ Thank you! You are Amazing! You are my King! You make me feel good! I am so proud of you! I appreciate all that you do, all the you are and all that you are helping me to become! I need you! I’m happy that we are one! I want to spend the rest of my live with you! Give him some love, especially when you don’t feel like it. Respect him, especially when it’s hard to do.

Now I would love to hear from some men on this subject. What are your thoughts? Do you think that by taking these steps it would help your woman to be more in tuned and in touch with her sensuality and sexuality? How would it help you?

Women, what do you think? Would these steps help you become more ready and open to receiving all that is available to you from you Man?

Love is in the air!! Breath in Breath out….can’t you smell it?

There’s plenty more to come including what kept us out ‘til 7 am the next morning. Stay tuned for the rest of the story…