Last Night Was AMAZING!!!

We finally did it!

We finally went to our first Tantric Sex event, it was by far the best non-touch sexual experience I’ve ever had!

Do you remember just a little while ago I met a beautiful woman, blogger and author by the name of Kenya K. Stevens – aka JuJuMaMa? Wonderful! Well last night she, Rakhem Seku (her husband) and a few others hosted Organic Bliss Tantra at Your Day Spa located in Roswell, Georgia. Hubby and I enjoyed ourselves so much that we are convinced we will be hosting our very own Tantric Sex event in the very near future.

 

From the moment we got there we were so high off of our own excitement and each other you could just feel the energy and love ooozzzing out of us. We immediately spotted Kenya and greeted her with hugs, kisses and smiles, just like I pictured it. Next, we got the pleasure of meeting her wonderful and wise husband who was much taller than I expected but I was pleasantly surprised. We were to be her assistants for the evening so we rolled our sleeves up and dove right in. There was food to be set up on the table, candles to be lit, sign in table to be arranged. We did not want Kenya to have to worry about a thing - other than being her illuminous bright being of a beautiful woman, who is very in tuned with her sensual and sexual nature. The ladies needed her to be relaxed and ready in order to guide us through the evening.  The guests started to arrive one by one and sometimes two maybe three at a time. D. and I greeted them with warm smiles, made them feel at ease and set them up to look forward to a fabulous evening! We had a good turn out. I would say it was about 30-35 guests in attendance. For many, it was their first time (like us) so they didn’t know what to expect but none-the-less were excited with the anticipation of it all. The doors flung open indicating it was time for the event to begin!

We all started with a Tantra Meditation session to unwind, relax and center ourselves in order to become open to receive all that was in store for us. The room was filled with blissful energy. Everyone was receptive, it was great! Now mind you, I’m already on a natural high so this just took me even higher. I love to meditate. I think everyone should give it a try . Moving right along to one of the best parts of the night – Rakhem Seku so eloquently demonstrated how he brings women to state of ORGASM without touching their bodies. The first volunteer came in to it open and ready to receive from him, which is the best way to reach your full potential of Orgasmic Bliss. Kenya had all the other ladies in the audience move to the front row to be in a better position to receive the electrical energy that Rakhem Seku was giving to the volunteer who was by now laying down tucked under a warm blanket. This completely blew my mind!! I thought the volunteer would be the only one to benefit from the healing, sensual, energy but if you were in your seat open, ready and receptive then you too would receive. Every woman is different so whatever she receives and how ever she receives it would be all up to her. Orgasmic Bliss was there for everyone! You know I was ready!

 

It took him about 10 minutes to get her to a state of Expanded Orgasm, it was tantalizing, sensual, surreal and extremely intriguing to watch. All eyes were on them. Next thing you know, I was feeling it!!!!! I’m sitting in my chair with my hands open in the receiving position and all of a sudden I start getting these tingly feelings in my body. I started to move in a wave like motion nothing as intense as hers but something all the same. I just let myself and my inhibitions go and enjoyed the moment, the feeling, and the fact that the men in the room were watching. With every inhale I let out a moan which made the feeling even more enjoyable. Why go to an event like this bottled up, with fear and skepticism? Just – be- open!! Kenya walked around the room helping the women to relax and receive by gently unfolding their arms, placing their hands in their laps in an open position and uncrossing their legs. One of the important things to remember was to remain in a state of openness and receptiveness. It’s like wanting to have a physical orgasm with your lover but you’re too busy thinking about how your body and hair look and what you’re cooking for dinner. If you’re in this place you might as well fake it until next time. But just know this, men want to give…we have to be willing to receive.

 

It was nothing like being in a room with Women who were open to the experience and Men who were absolutely loving, tender and feeling a sense of gratitude for just being there. All the men in the room were absolute Gentlemen! During the session they were quietly and respectfully observing. After all they were all there to learn. Learn how to pleasure, give, honor and bless their woman on a much higher level. Talk about men who appreciate the many aspects of woman, it’s beautiful! I commended all of them for wanting to learn how to please a women by using other tools and technique’s that’s different from what the “little” boys use. There are so many more ways to give to a women sexually. Men just have to take the time to find it, it’s out there and your woman will love you for it!

Open To Orgasm ~ This was the session where Kenya would teach all of the women how to open themselves up to Orgasm. So many women today, unfortunately, do not experience Orgasms. And, to make it worse many, many, many women fake it and in turn cut themselves short in receiving what her lover can give. And her lover loses out because he can’t give. And what's up with these ladies that say that they have their “toys”, “so why do I need a man”? I think this question is absurd! Why do you need a man? We have to understand that men want to give, they want to please. We ladies have forgotten how to receive and to be fulfilled. We don’t like to allow our men to lead and we in turn follow. There is nothing wrong with following your man. There is nothing wrong or belittling about allowing your man to lead. In fact, it takes great strength and courage for a real woman to do this. It’s actually our fear and weakness that pushes us to want to take the lead. There is strength in submission. I know what you’re thinking, there goes that “S” word again……oh yeah! 

I’ll be writing a part two to this post and in that post I will include the five steps to Orgasm according to Kenya. I will also share the conversation I had with friends in my room on my bed at the age of 23, on the day I said I Do. We talked for hours about the “S” word – Submission. I’ll say this, I lost many friends (or at least those who I thought were friends) over that conversation. I’ll also talk about why D. and I didn’t get home until after 7 am in the morning after our Tantra Bliss experience ~ and why many, many hours later I am still in that state of B-L-I-S-S! 

Raw Dog With Wine

Today the hubster and I had a full day to work, play and visit with a fellow blogger, Rawdawg Buffalo! It was a great visit! D. dropped the kids to his Mom early this morning and that gave me a chance to sleep in late which I appreciated so much. We were planning on dropping them off together but some people just don’t know when to go to bed so that means some people are not getting the sufficient amount of sleep she should be getting. When will I learn, Ha! So D. got the kids up and dressed, leaned over kissed me and told me to get some rest and he’ll take the kids, alone, for the 45min drive to Grandma’s. This gave me an opportunity to meditate and do some chakra balancing. I can’t tell you how much this has helped to bring healing and centeredness to my being. I’ll share more with you on this topic and how much it’s done for me at a later time.

 

Torrance Stevens, aka Rawdawg Buffalo is an awesome blogger, author, father,friend and owner of Brain Cell, A Store For Dogs! Many of you who read my blog know him as well so you too would agree with what I’m saying. Rawdawg speaks his mind, is very “as a matter of fact” and doesn’t hold anything back, just real. And that’s why so many people like to read what he has to say.

 

We had a good visit! We laughed, took pictures and listened to a few of his original beats from years ago. I’m talking from the early 90’s :) He’s so candid and cool. Meeting him was no different than reading him through his blog, same cool cat. It just is what it is with him. Our conversations was much like what you would get when reading his blog, funny as hell, interesting and that occasional pause you would have to take after Torrance says something, deep I tell ya..LOL.

We also got a chance to meet Famous, his cute little Chihuahua who thought he was a  pit bull…lol.  The store is fabulous! If you like dressing you little pooch in cute cloths, he’s got it! If you would like to feed your canine friend some of the finest foods, he’s got it! Toys, collars, bags, he’s got it! And, if you ever just wanna chill, sip on whatever the alcoholic beverage choice of the day is, listen to some good music and even watch Rawdawg tweet on twitter, he’s got it! We even had the pleasure of meeting two of his friends who came through because they heard the music playing from down the street.

Don’t just take my word, you should go and check him out. Brain Cell is located at 572 Edgewood Ave. in Atlanta GA.

Torrance we’ve been trying to hook up for a minute now, I’m glad we finally did! Keep up the great work, Bro! Another good black Man just doing his thang!

So...Get Your Dance On!!

That's It! I'm Done! - Hello?

This one's for my baby. How perfect was this for me? To have come across this video playing the very song that I wanted to dedicate to my love featuring one of, if not my most favorite celebrity couple!!

I absolutely love this song by Beyonce', Hello. This song describes exactly how I feel and want to convey my thoughts about the Man that I married 10 years ago. YES! 10 fabulous years of bliss, passion, struggle, tears, joy, and growth (tremendous). I can hang my dreams, hopes, future on this Man. He is SOLID. Believe me, it takes a Man of strength, patience, love (unconditional in the utmost way), vision, passion, and belief to put up with a women like me. And that's putting it lightly. Trust me, I know how to dish it out!

He believed in me, when I didn't. He pushed me, when I didn't want to go and if I didn't I wouldn't be here today. When I would throw my bitch fits (like the other day), he would love me even more? I didn't believe it because it was just too freakin' good to be true. BUT! That's just it, he is soooo freakin' good and I'm blessed beyond measure to have him, to be with him, to build him up, to support him, to brush his shoulders off when he falls, to walk by his side like Bonnie and Clyde. Doing this thing, this thing called LIFE. Together, not alone.

I chose this Man and He chose me. He is me and I am him. We are ONE.

Listen to the words to this song, I'm serious! Listen to the passion behind her voice, the meaning behind every word. She's making love to him with every word. Greeting him when he comes home from a long days work, taking his coat, rubbing his shoulders, gently kissing his cheek, lips, as she dances to his favorite song, touching herself, gently, as if he were touching her, undressing him, shoes, belt, pants, tie, shirt, tee, kissing him again, gently, on his chest, inhaling him with every kiss, passionately, panting, getting wet, n, ready for......him. Her love.

Listen ~

What did I tell you? Do you remember when your Man had you at HELLO? I do. And everytime I remember I want to show him and thank him for choosing me.
If you don't, you need to. Then trip that Man out and show him how much you remember. Tell me about it later because I love these kind of stories. I EAT THEM UP, YUM...don't you?

Chisel. Chisel. Chisel. Chisel. Chisel.

In my last post I told you that I would share with you a book that I've been reading. The name of the book is called 'How Did I Get Here?' The words that follow below come from a page in that book. It describes me to a tee, it may be the same for many of you as well ~

It reads:

Who Is The Real Me?

The moment you are being, you're nobody but yourself. To be nobody but yourself-in a world which is doing it's best to make you everybody else . . . is the most wonderful life on earth.

- e. e. cummings

Take a pause on that quote for a little before moving forward, OK, read on.

Here is my truth about the real me.

The Real Me:

Sometimes I love being with people. Sometimes I flee from company and can bear only silence.

Sometimes I am sure people see my gifts, my wisdom and my light. Sometimes I think people have no clue as to who I really am.

Sometimes I will forgive and forgive and forgive and forgive no matter what someone does to me. Sometimes a line is crossed, and I close the door.

Sometimes I am the ancient goddess with the power of the universe flowing through me. Sometimes I am an insecure, wonded little girl afraid to make a phone call.

Sometimes I have infinite patience and compassion for everyone's choices. Sometimes how people live and behave makes me ill.

Sometimes I see the perfection of life and purposefulness in everyone and everything. Sometimes I think the world is just a screwed-up place.

Sometimes I want to serve the planet with every waking breath I take. Sometimes I want to cash in my retirement account and go live on a tiny tropical island where I have no responsiblities, no communities and no purpose other than to enjoy - each - and - every - glorious - day.

All of these are the REAL me. Some parts I am quite fond of. Some parts are nothing but trouble. Some parts make people admire me. Some parts make people wonder about me. Some parts I am certain I should have included in my list. Some parts . . . well, I am nothing if not authentic!

As I learn to accept and honor each of these pieces of myself, I experience an exquisite sense of wholeness for which I realize I have been searching for all of my life.

I used to pray, please make me successful, please give me energy to keep up with my kids, please help me write a great book. Now I pray for one thing: please fill my heart with enough love to embrace all that I am, and all that others are.

Chisel Chisel Chisel...

Peeling The Skin Off Of A Juicy Peach

It's just been a few days and hubby and I are already enjoying bliss with our cups running over abundantly! I can no longer deny myself of everything, everything that I am and want to have and meeting people along the way that help me on my path is priceless!

Here's an interesting quote I read: "Everyone is a moon, and has a dark side which he never shows to anybody". -Mark Twain

Do you believe that? I do, and I also know that there comes a time when you just want it to all hang out. When you just want to be you and not fear judgement and condemnation. And, you want to know that you are still loved.

Here's a couple of things to think about that I took from a book I'm reading (and I'll share it with you soon):

No matter how compassionate you consider yourself to be you know that you have a more selfish, sometimes arrogant, impatient side. Don't you?

No matter how much you pride yourself on your discipline you have a secretive addictive tendency that you keep under inflexibly tight control.

No matter how much you preach about morality and purity to others you constantly battle with your longing to indulge your senses in every possible way.

No matter how much you defend your independence from others and claim you want nothing from them you desperately long to find someone who will take charge and let you lean on them.

These are just a few examples of how much we desire to be and allow others to know who we really are and what's really going on and at the same time continue to be loved, adored, nurtured and respected. Don't we?

I say all of this to say, thanks to all the beautiful souls that I have met along my way, who has helped and continues to help me to BE me, fully and unashamedly. They allow us to be who we are with loving and open arms. This is my special thanks to you!